Directions:
Choose only one answer per question. It may be tough!

1.                   What is the best love gift you can give your love mate on Valentine’s Day?

     a.       Give your love mate a dozen roses with a beautiful love note
b.      Give your love mate a new high-definition flat-screen TV
c.       Make love -- with your love mate’s needs the center of attention
d.      Share the top 10 things you most love about your love mate
e.       Take your love mate to dinner at a romantic restaurant 

2.                  Which question creates the most intimacy & love?

     a.       “How are you feeling sweetie?”
b.      “Sweetie, what are you most feeling right now?
c.       “Honey, what would you most like to do to celebrate Valentine’s Day?”
d.      “Honey, what’s the most significant thing going on inside your heart?”
e.       “What the hell is going on here?” 

3.                  What is one of the biggest mistakes people make in love?

     a.       Choosing the wrong love mate
b.      Not loving themselves well
c.       Having sex too early
d.      Fighting about money
e.       Being unkind to each other 

4.                  What is most likely to take your love to the next level?

     a.       More & better sex
b.      More heart talk
c.       Giving each other more space
d.      More money
e.       Reading books on how to succeed in love 

5.                  Which style of listening creates the most love?

     a.       Look directly in your love mate’s eyes
b.      Listen quietly and patiently while you prepare what you plan to say next
c.       Tell your love mate, in your own words, what you heard her/him say
d.      Silently assess the value of what you are hearing as your love mate is talking
e.       Interrupt when necessary to create equality of talk time 

 Copyright (c) 2007 by Dr. Scott & Shannon Peck