A Course in Love & Healing 
 
Lesson 10

Finding the Lovemate
of Your Dreams

By Dr. Scott Peck & Shannon Peck

Yes, it’s good enough to be true!  

Finding the Lovemate of your dreams is not only possible, it is your spiritual right.  It is what Love wants for you.  

Here are 10 keys for finding the love you deserve:   

1. You find your true Lovemate in Love consciousness, not romance consciousness.  Romance consciousness is full of yearning, hoping, superficial attraction, games, and waiting. Love consciousness flows with compassion, joy, and healing Love – to everyone. This is “the place” where lovers of Love find each other.  

2. Love yourself - deeply!  Imagine how much less love your Lovemate will receive if you are occupied in not loving yourself.  Love, love, love your beautiful self.  Your Lovemate from Love is already cherishing you and asking you for this.  And you want this for your Lovemate.  

3. Don’t hide your spiritual identity. Discover who you are. Let your magnificence out of hiding. Shine. Radiate. Be all of who you are. If you don’t, you may be invisible to the Lovemate of your dreams. 

4.  Let Love orchestrate. Let the brilliance of your love shine so brightly that your light creates the place, time, and circumstance that brings you and your Lovemate into synchronicity.  Let go of outlining how it should work.  Remember: “If you want to make God laugh, tell Her your plans.” Love’s plans for you are so much bigger!   

5.  Be the presence of Love as a LoveMaster everywhere you look, talk, walk, and think.  Love humanity like you are going to love your Lovemate.  Practice & refine your Love skills.  Begin loving your future Lovemate now!  

6. Develop a radiant, powerful, all-inclusive, healing Love practice. All humanity needs your love. Walk through life as the presence of Love, leaving a wake of goodwill, smiles, warmed hearts, and healing.  This is the depth of love you want to give to and receive from your Lovemate.  

7.  Keep a Love journal. Write down all the ways you loved others today, and all the ways you were loved. Record your love goals for tomorrow. You will become powerfully conscious of living in Love reality rather than in love blindness. 

8.  Practice powerful Love affirmations that unite you with Love and attract all Love to you. For example: “At this very moment, Love is cherishing me and simultaneously cherishing my Lovemate. We are both being prepared to meet in the highest place of Love and nothing can prevent the inevitable destiny of our meeting and recognizing each other.”  

9.  Awaken to your spiritual identity and purpose. Once you align with Soul, magnificent love changes unfold. Feel the immense spiritual presence and support from both of you being on a spiritual path – already partners in spiritual growth. Awake to the larger purpose of your Love union to benefit all around you – even humanity. 

10.  Open your consciousness to Love surprise!  Love arrives in our lives like a soft wind that appears out of nowhere – when we open our divine senses to feel the Love breeze.  Welcome to the heart of Love!  

Copyright (c) 2001 by Scott & Shannon Peck 

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