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Think of your best friends. Why do you love them?
Consider that these may be the qualities you are most looking for in a
happy healthy relationship.
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Don’t rush into love. You’re not desperate. Get to
know the person and after 6-9 months of weekly contacts, consider that
you are beginning to know who they are and what they are like. Now you
can evaluate whether or not this is the right person for you.
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What did you learn from your past relationships that
didn’t work out? When did you know and how quickly did you act on ending
the relationship? Consider these things when you begin a new
relationship.
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Ask yourself, ‘What do I really want?” What qualities
are non-negotiable? How do you most need to be treated by another
person?
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What are your top values? Consider that the love mate
of your dreams will honor, cherish, and share these values. And it’s
because of your values you are most treasured by them. Otherwise, it
isn’t a fit.
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Inquire into the heart and soul of any potential love
mate. Ask, “What are your biggest dreams?” Be sure to share yours too
and notice if he/she listens. This is a test.
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Drop your fantasies that he/she will change and that
false hope is better than no hope. Your love is bigger than that!
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Realize that intimacy is vital to your happiness.
Stretch your intimacy levels and be sure to practice them regularly.
Require deep, intimate connections to your love mate’s heart.
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Become an expert listener!
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Love yourself.
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Hold space open for the possibility for you and your
love mate finding each other and soon! Ask yourself, “What am I looking
for in another that would make me happy? And what do I have to bring to
his/her happiness?”
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Practice asking love questions, such as, “What’s the
most significant thing going on in your life right now?”
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Ask a deeper Love Master question such as, “What are
your biggest dreams?” Listen well. Then offer genuine, positive support.
Expect to share your answer as well.
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Remember, your soul has a plan for its destiny and
your life purpose. Synchronicities and intuition will help you discover
your right love mate.
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Learn how to create from the field of intention.
Allow this field of intention to activate within you to call forth your
right love mate. Name what your intention is.
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Reclaim yourself as a love being!
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Realize you deserve to be loved!
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Visualize yourself in love’s energy field, walking
around and living with love all the time.
