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Make Valentine’s
Day
Your Most Loving Day Ever!
Valentine’s Day brings up
enormous love emotions. “Will I ever be truly loved?” “Is real love
even possible?”
“The number one thing we most want in
life has never changed. We want to be loved - richly loved!” say Dr.
Scott & Shannon Peck, co-authors of the new book The Top 60 Love
Skills You Were Never Taught: Secrets of A Love Master.
“Rather than waiting for someone else
to create intimacy, or feeling bad that you are not being loved as much
as you’d like, take the initiative and be the one who creates intimacy
and love this year.”
Here are 7 ways to create a “Love Day”
on Valentine’s Day – or any day!
1.
Ask a love question to friends and even strangers.
Love questions open hearts instantly –
and they are fun! No matter who you see today, ask one of these
questions: “What is the biggest thing going on in your life right now?”
Or, “What’s going on in your heart today? Or, “What are you most
passionate about?” When they answer the question – and most will -
respond with a listening heart. Say, “Tell me more” or “Thank you for
sharing.” Notice how fast intimacy occurs. And notice that it occurred
because you took the lead in loving.
2.
Share the top 5 ways you are most loveable.
Take a moment and name to yourself your
top five qualities – such as humor, insight, joy, intelligence,
playfulness, caring, etc. Then exude and radiate these love qualities as
your Love Day gifts to everyone you see all day long. Your heart will
feel full and satisfied because you are expressing your love self. What
is more fulfilling than that?
3.
All day long, think of yourself as an energy field of Love.
We are all energy fields. Be aware of
yourself today as an energy field of love. Welcome everyone into your
energy field & embrace them with your love. Notice what occurs when
others feel your love energy. They feel love’s presence – and all
because you are taking the love initiative. Let your energy field of
love move out to strangers and people throughout the world who are
desperate to feel loved.
4.
Call or email the 3 people closest to you and tell them you have a love
gift for them.
We are all waiting to be loved. Well,
who’s going to do the loving if we’re all waiting? So call or email at
least three people you love today and openly tell them three things you
most appreciate about them. Speak with sincerity and from the heart. You
won’t believe how much they will appreciate your love. And how good
you’ll feel being the presence of love.
5.
Ask someone you are close to, “What is your biggest dream?”
This is such a powerful way to love
someone proactively. Everyone is so busy that we lose touch with our
dreams. Who has time to care about our dreams? YOU do! Be bold and ask
someone “What are your biggest dreams?” When they share, let them know
how much you cherish their dreams. Notice too how much love is flowing
back into your life as well! Share your biggest dream too. By the way,
what is your biggest dream?
6.
All day long, speak from your heart.
Let your heart be in charge today.
Live, breathe, and speak from your heart rather than your head. Say
things like, “It feels good to talk with you” or “I like sharing time
with you” or “You mean so much to me.” Let your heart be open. Be the
love you so much want to receive.
7.
Enjoy being proactive with love.
Dare to love proactively. Doing so
takes you out of loneliness, isolation, depression, waiting, and
yearning. Proactive love calls you into your highest self and enables
you to experience all the love you could ever want. This is the life of
a Love Master – an expert in creating a love environment everywhere.
Welcome to “Love Day!”
(c) 2006 by Scott & Shannon
Peck
Co-Founders, TheLoveCenter
www.TheLoveCenter.com
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